The Booty Text

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People come in and out of our lives. It is hard to deal with or know what it means, or how it defines us. Having someone leave your life, is a lot harder than never letting them enter your life in the first place. There is this drive in current society to find our “better half”. The focus on the coupling, the importance of finding someone else to make you happy. When really in the end you need to be happy on your own. Constantly striving to find someone to make you feel happy, is quite frankly exhausting. Doing the same things, going out, finding someone nice, thinking “this time is will work”, and then being disappointed just as all the times before. Being disappointed is never a good feeling. It is exhausting letting people into your life that are not worthy of how great you are. I want to be happy with ME first. And tell off those that don’t deserve my greatness. 

A boy I used to have a “thing” with. Texted me last night at 2am asking “are you still up?”….. WHATT 

I mean make the “booty call” more obvious. I responded “Stop booty calling me, I am not down for a booty call”

I had to say it, boys need to have more respect for women. I live at hours other than 2am. I am fine and happy at all hours, do you think I will let that go at 2am to be used… I am not a thing, I am a person that deserves so much more than a 2am “thing”. 

– The anonymous university girl 

 

Oh, I have been here before

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A guy keeps on messaging me on Facebook and all his messages are around seven to ten lines long, the longest has been twenty-three. What the effing hell. If you’re gonna bother someone, at least keep it short.

I know, I know, I’m being a bitch here. But I value personal space, even in the online, virtual one. When I said I’ve been here before, I meant this has been done to me by some guy three years ago and back then, I felt all special because he seemed to like me, we seemed to understand each other (but don’t be fooled: liking the same music is not enough. Plus, watch out if he’s just pretending to like the music you like to get you to like him) and he did like me, and then we sort of got close, and then I got suffocated because he literally got mad…

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Why My Wife’s Job Is Harder Than Mine

The undervalued role of a women redefined

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I work at a large, top-200 law firm in one of the ten most populous cities in the country. The hours can be grueling, there are constant deadlines, and the work is mentally demanding.  Any partner in my particular practice area can assign me work, which means I have more than 30 potential bosses.  At any given time, I am working on projects for three to five partners, all of whom believe that their assignment should take priority over any other work.  As a result, there have been many long days (and long nights).

Moreover, being a lawyer at a large firm is a high-stress endeavor.  Even small mistakes can have significant implications and, as a result, tensions can run high.  And of course, because excellence is expected, partners are unlikely to give much positive feedback for a job well done; instead, the reward for good work is more work.

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“Always remembe…

“Always remember that when a man goes out of the room, he leaves everything in it behind… When a woman goes out she carries everything that happened in the room along with her.”

― Alice Munro, Too Much Happiness

any comments on this quote? 

do you think its true? how does this relate to women and relationships? 

Figure shit out

This blog is a place to facilitate discussions about difficulties women face in current society. A place for women to come to understanding of the current “hook up culture” and what effects it may have on us women.  Every week there will be a theme, followed with quotes and other information for everyone to discuss.

So welcome 🙂

This Blog is to figure shit out.